Life is not always fair,in fact, not at all fair. Be habituated to it, you won’t get hurt so easily and so ‘frequently’. You may give all your heart , soul and all to a particular work and particular person, and at the end of the day, you may feel; you have got nothing, may be only negative vibrations; suddenly you will feel deceived by that person, your destiny and series of the events that led to it.It is so normal and it happens to everyone without exception, may be not equally. Some people are, somewhat, more privileged.
But, however,life is best teacher,one can have,may be very pedagogic and cruel,severe and harsh,but then also,it is very practical. Ironically, it teaches you lessons and makes you grow up, only for the purpose to get more accustomed to its eccentricities, so that we can handle its unusual quirks and idiosyncrasies more diligently, more patiently and with greater maturity without getting too much affected by it.
It teaches you lesson at every step. There are nothing called good or bad experiences,they are life’s pedagogic and capricious ways to teach you lesson in the form of beautiful dreams coming true and getting shattered at every turn, making you smile and frown, laugh and cry bitterly. So learn from it, analyse it patiently, know your mistakes, find ways to face and handle it in better manner and move on…
Whatever happens to your life,it never stops,it goes on without giving you a single bare moment to handle it,giving you shocks and shivers at very next moment. But whatever be,every setback and heartbreak will make you more matured, discriminating and an astute judge of character, more shrewd to handle such situations, in short, a better person. And I am hoping too to get refined and concrete at every step of life.
Don’t think of yourself as wretched fellow who got every bad pie in her share, in fact ,you are the lucky one,to whom life gave an opportunity to improve and refine. A person who gets all the delicacies without struggling much for it and going through any hardship and ups and downs, can never know their real worth and remains a shallow and naive person not having enough strength and thirst to enjoy and harness the best out of it.
If the things are not going your way,neither your life nor the person , you are giving your true and pure heart and all, is not reciprocating your efforts in the same way, may be this is the case that those things and those people are not made for you to be beside you or with you. Destiny is a strong word, and noone can deny that. We can’t have full control over our life because somehow, rein is not in our hands completely. There are umpteen forces working and governing the events around us than just our will power, strength, capabilities and efforts. Compared to all these forces, our efforts are not even half as strong. These forces can change the turn , velocity and inclination of the events in any direction that also constantly and frequently depending upon their comparative and relative strength. (2006)
